Doth We Petition Too Much?

My LIFE group is currently studying Dean Trune's book, The Path Toward Passion.  It covers nine spiritual disciplines that help us connect our heart to God's. This week's chapter was on prayer -- more specifically, how to pray humbly. Dean touched on five elements of prayer that are essential to the believer. They are petition, submission, obedience, confession, and repentance.

Dean writes:

"All elements need to be employed as we pray to reach the deep intimacy we seek with our Creator. Praying humbly means that I lay our everything in every corner of my being before God. He is ready and waiting for us. It is all about Him and not about me. Praying with reckless and relentless humility will lead us to God's heart."
(Trune, D. The Path Toward Passion. p. 63. Prayershop Publishing. 2009)

After studying the five elements of prayer, I asked our group which one we do more of and which one we do the least. Overwhelmingly, we agreed that most of our prayers take the form of petitioning God, while prayerful times of confession and repentance are seldom experienced. In other words, we're pretty good at asking God, but not so good at listening and submitting to God in our prayer time.

It isn't that petitioning God is bad, but often times our petitions are misquided. Our prayers are dominated with requests for things we want and need -- It's all about my life, my family, my health, my job, my friends, my, my, oh, my. We pray selfishly for God to fix this, give us that, bless us now, keep us safe, and while you're at it, do something about the weather. Again, those aren't necessarily evil or bad things to pray about, but who is the benificiary of those petitions? We are!

In order for our faith to deepen and our walk in Christ to take us to newer heights, we need to focus less on ourselves and our needs and more on God's kingdom and His will. Instead of us being the beneficiary of our petitions, let's make God's kingdom the beneficiary. Let's pray more like Jesus -- "Not my will, but yours be done" (Luke 22:42).

Here's a little excercise. The next time you pray, don't petition God for anything unless it is Kingdom related.